Life's Key Moments Occur Within Relationships, Study
FRIDAY, Sept. 3 (HealthDay News) -- It isn't personal success or
failure that make up the best and worst moments of a person's life,
but the events that occur within social relationships, new research
"Most of us spend much of our time and effort focused on individual achievements, such as work, hobbies and schooling," study co-author Shira Gabriel, an associate professor of psychology at the University at Buffalo, said in a university news release.
"However, this research suggests that the events that end up being most important in our lives, the events that bring us the most happiness and also carry the potential for the most pain, are social events -- moments of connecting to others and feeling their connections to us," Gabriel explained.
Gabriel and colleagues reached their conclusion after conducting
four studies involving a total of 376 people.
Most previous research has suggested that the most intense
emotional experiences occur during independent events that don't
involve other people, such as achieving a personal goal.
"We found, however, that it was not independent events or individual achievements like winning awards or completing tasks that affected participants the most, but the moments when close relationships began or ended; when people fell in love or found a new friend; when a loved one died or broke their hearts. In short, it was the moments of connecting to others that touched peoples' lives the most," Gabriel said.
The study findings were released online in advance of
publication in an upcoming print issue of the journal
Self and Identity.
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